I have always thought to myself when I used to watch those dreadful Jerry Springer episodes, what was the back-stabbing lady thinking, should you really be screwing around with a guy who would dump your best friend for you in an instant just because your ohhahh is throbbing? What did she think he would do to her, if someone better came along, even if she happened to be your NEW best friend? As long as she is willing he is, as the old saying goes, what goes around comes around right?

I could never understand that I still can’t, I personally will direct my anger or spite at the man, for even considering cheating on his current girl friend, even if for some reason I would rather be with him. I cannot overlook that, because frankly I could be in that position next month, what a vicious cycle of mischief and back-stabbing. But haven said that, the saying “Hell knows no fury, like a woman’s scorn” is very real the things that women do to each other and if the opportunity arises to a man as well, we all know the male species are a bigger and more physically developed breed, so emotional and psychological harm is mainly a Ladies tool of revenge, but why do Women have so much destructive rage when wronged and why towards other women, it can’t be solely because other women are easier targets physically, or is it natural to hate other like-beings that have something you don’t and want? I guess that could somewhat explain prejudice and racism.

That can’t possibly be the case though, I have seen men overcome major differences in minutes, and brush off wrongs done to them by other men like they were changing their boxer briefs, so why do women linger and hold such grudges? Why?

What about our men? Why is it that men do not do the same, now the makeup is asking too much, but how difficult is it to smell good and most importantly shave or trim, guys say it’s nice to have a trimmed or shaved girl, easy to go “Down Under” if you catch my drift.

But what about the majority of us ladies that have to play with the Joy Stick at eye level? I mean if I wanted to visit the jungle I know a good travel agent who would get me to Africa, but wow we are in the US. Or are we? I recently did a research did you know that Men in Africa and Europe actually shave their armpits amongst other things, especially African Men from select African countries of course but still, why do American men especially the ones in the sporting world think it’s okay or normal to have a carpet growing from your armpit.

I think it’s disgusting, throw in a little steam and they generate more sweat than our shaven African counterparts, I mean I have never heard of an African guy dying out in 5mins and trust me I know and I know other women that know, God made the African Desert for a reason, it helps build great thighs and hip muscles, sex should be a marathon of pleasure and my God it should be with less smelling and more “you know what”.

I hope this message rings true to American men, to please shave, a shaving stick at Wal-Mart is less than a buck each, disposables anyway and let’s try and keep us women happier in bed, on the couch, in line at the movies and when the chance arises and we are hot and bothered in a remote or voyeuristic place and we decide to get on our knees and play with your Joy Stick and Melons we would prefer that with no “Porcupine” effect.

Found this story to be quite interesting…

This scenario has crossed every non-hermit human mind, but which is truly better? Being married, to the love of your life, having sex with only one woman, one set of boobs for the rest of your life? Or being single with a lot of choices? She doesn’t work out move on to the next choice, numerous sets of boobs, and pieces of tail for the taken. Same goes for Women, because it’s rarely argued but Women account for a lot more relationship games than do Men.

Now the question is why single people are so lonely, even with a girl friend, is it maybe because there is nothing set in stone, nothing that says she is yours? Or is it the fact that they both know they can walk away with a little heart-ache but ultimately still find someone else fairly quickly without losing a beat?

And why are some married couples or people frustrated? Is it the sex, is it the old saying “Man cannot live on bread alone” which the bible so proudly prints? What is it that makes us humans, single or married feel this way? Why is there so much irony in relationships?

Coming from experience, a friend was told me it was harder to get a girlfriend when he was single, than it is now married, it’s like a ring on a guys finger these days means he is taken, until he comes across a Woman who doesn’t care generally referred to as “Home Wrecker” and trust me there are quite a lot of them out there. It doesn’t help that there are 5 women to every 1 man in the world today.

Or should this be about why “Women hate Women”?

I really don’t know, but I have all these questions and scenarios that suggest that we Humans both male and female or the most of us, are just not satisfied beings, we always want something more. It’s sad but true, satisfaction is a trait humans just can’t comprehend, now for those select few who truly appreciate their relations and stick to it, no falling for outside temptations you have my praise.

How do you deal with that, I can’t imagine having my boyfriend or husband in a foreign country fighting for our freedom and knowing that people are trying to kill him? That can be a huge weight on anyone. If anyone is in this position please share how you cope with this and any advices for others who do not have the same network or help as you do.

What kind of “fighter” are you?

*  Brothers and Sisters-in-law.  Being an only child it originally took me awhile to get in tune with that whole big family, everybody in your business in a sense.  But geez, who knew how awesome it would be to have an army of people that have your back.  No matter what.

*  Sex. Need I say more.

*  A built in best friend that you can say or tell anything too.  Good day, bad day, he is always there to listen and offer some advice.

*  Knowing that you have forever with this person.  It takes work, some sweat and tears, but it is all worth it.

These characteristics should stand for any man:

1. Does he care about his family, Mama’s boy or not? Does he care about those related to him in anyway and does he show or express that affection in any way. If he doesn’t have respect for those closest to him by blood there is not hope for you.

2. Drive, ambition, or motivation, whatever you want to call it, does he have IT? Now I don’t mean he has to be a CEO of a fortune 500 company, but as the saying goes in Kanye West’s lyrics “this week he’s mopping floors, next week it’s the fries”.

3. Self esteem, all guys can’t look like Brad Pitt or Will Smith whatever your preference is, but he should have the self esteem to know his qualities and hold himself in high regard and exudes that either to the public or to you in private, but a great man should have this quality.

4. A great guy should be able to, take a compliment and also be a good listener doesn’t mean what anyone especially his loved ones are saying is correct nor does he have to change his ways to please everyone, but he should have the grace and smarts to listen to the voices of others and examine his life and or life situation, because sometimes the best advice comes from the most unlikely places.

5. What are your thoughts on Number #5?