PureSenses

So, it’s inevitable that you will fight with your spouse.  If you don’t fight, there’s no passion.  You know that in most cases it’s a battle of who is going to say sorry first or who was right.  Not in my house.  I’m a libra, I like balance and everything in harmony.  I always say I’m sorry first.  I mean it too.  But sometimes when I feel really, really bad I think it’s hard to make my hubby realize that I am truly sincere.  He’s an Aries, very stubborn.  We are total opposites, but a perfect match.  So, even though I try to clean up a fight quick and easy, it usually still lasts a little longer then I want.  I think that he must like it a little bit, cuz I have to admit I will go overboard trying to make up.  Cleaning, making dinner, or whatever else that I think that might make him crack.  I just wait.  There’s a face that I get when I know it’s over.  Kinda like stone cracking and then his eyes turn to butter.   That’s when I know I’ve got him.  He loves me, he can’t help it….

What kind of “fighter” are you?

* The funny stuff you see your spouse do.  Seriously, who knew that we were all so…interesting.  Now don’t get me wrong,  I have plenty of my own quirks, but some of the things my hubby does, well it’s like a SNL skit.  Like the time we were working out and he decided that he was going to break out his inner ninja.  Let’s just say I don’t think he’ll do that again without a blaring memory of what it did to his groin. That’s just a glint in in the pan to the funny stuff I see everyday.  Wow.  My life is never dull.

*  Brothers and Sisters-in-law.  Being an only child it originally took me awhile to get in tune with that whole big family, everybody in your business in a sense.  But geez, who knew how awesome it would be to have an army of people that have your back.  No matter what.

*  Sex. Need I say more.

*  A built in best friend that you can say or tell anything too.  Good day, bad day, he is always there to listen and offer some advice.

*  Knowing that you have forever with this person.  It takes work, some sweat and tears, but it is all worth it.